250 Positive Personality Traits to Describe Your Child

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Language to Describe Your Child’s Positive Traits

Have you ever been asked to describe your child’s personality, character, or strengths and not known what to say? Here’s a helpful list of positive personality traits you can use to describe your kids.

Ways to Use this List

  • give your kids language to feel positive about themselves
  • find words to describe their strengths
  • determine weaknesses they can work on
  • choose a few adjectives to focus on for a period of time (monthly or yearly focus words) as a character building exercise
  • encourage your kids to embrace a growth mindset and focus on one of these personality traits in an area they feel inadequate
  • cultivate traits they want to be known for

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Activities Using these Descriptive Words

These adjectives can be used in a variety of ways to help your kids explore the words they feel best describe them. Here are a few ideas to get you started.

  • vocabulary: if they don’t know the meaning, have them look up the words
  • create an acrostic of their name using words to describe themselves
  • make a personal collage and add some of the descriptive words along with pictures
  • offer positive feedback to siblings or parents using the describing words
  • use creative lettering to display adjectives that remind them of how they want to interact with others

As a homeschooler, I’m always looking for ways to encourage my kids to know themselves—what comes naturally to them and what doesn’t. One thing I like to remind them, and myself, is that whoever it is we want to be in the future (when I grow up), we should take steps to be that person today.

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List of Positive Adjectives to Describe Kids

Find out how to download a free printable list of all 250 positive personality traits at the end of this article.


Who do you want to be today?

How do you want others to describe you?

list of positive adjectives to describe your child

Positive Adjectives Beginning with A

accepting

accommodating

active

adaptable

admirable

adorable

adventurous

affectionate

agile

agreeable

aggressive

alert

altruistic

ambitious

amiable

amusing

analytical

appreciative

approachable

articulate

artistic

assertive

astute

athletic

attentive

authentic

autonomous

Positive Adjectives Beginning with B

big-hearted

boisterous

bold

brave

bubbly

Positive Adjectives Beginning with C

calm

capable

captivating

carefree

careful

casual

cautious

charismatic

charming

cheerful

clever

collaborative

comforting

committed

compassionate

competent

competitive

confident

congenial

conscientious

considerate

consistent

contemplative

cooperative

coordinated

cordial

courageous

courteous

creative

cultured

curious

Positive Adjectives Beginning with D

daring

dazzling

decisive

dedicated

deliberate

demonstrative

dependable

detail-oriented

determined

devoted

dignified

diligent

diplomatic

direct

discreet

dramatic

driven

dynamic

Positive Adjectives Beginning with E

eager

easy-going

educated

efficient

elegant

eloquent

empathetic

encouraging

energetic

enterprising

entertaining

enthusiastic

entrepreneurial

ethical

expressive

extraverted

exuberant

Positive Adjectives Beginning with F

fair

faithful

fearless

flamboyant

flexible

focused

forgiving

forthright

friendly

frugal

funny

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Positive Adjectives Beginning with G

generous

gentle

genuine

giving

good-natured

graceful

gracious

Positive Adjectives Beginning with H

happy

hard-working

helpful

high-spirited

hilarious

honest

honorable

hopeful

hospitable

humble

Positive Adjectives Beginning with I

idealistic

imaginative

impartial

independent

industrious

influential

informed

innovative

inquisitive

insightful

inspiring

intellectual

intentional

introverted

intuitive

inventive

Positive Adjectives Beginning with J

jovial

joyful

just

Positive Adjectives Beginning with K

kind

knowledgeable

Positive Adjectives Beginning with L

likable

logical

loving

loyal

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Positive Adjectives Beginning with M

meditative

methodical

meticulous

modest

motivated

Positive Adjectives Beginning with N

neat

nurturing

Positive Adjectives Beginning with O

objective

observant

open-minded

opinionated

optimistic

orderly

organized

outgoing

Positive Adjectives Beginning with P

passionate

patient

patriotic

peaceful

pensive

perceptive

perky

persistent

personable

persuasive

philosophical

pioneering

playful

pleasant

poetic

polished

polite

positive

practical

pragmatic

precise

proactive

problem-solving

professional

proficient

proper

punctual

purposeful

Positive Adjectives Beginning with Q

quiet

quirky

Positive Adjectives Beginning with R

rational

realistic

reasonable

relaxed

reliable

resilient

resourceful

respectful

responsible

restrained

Positive Adjectives Beginning with S

scrupulous

self-aware

self-disciplined

sensible

sensitive

sentimental

serious

sincere

sociable

sophisticated

spontaneous

straightforward

strategic

strong

studious

subtle

supportive

Positive Adjectives Beginning with T

tactful

talkative

teachable

tenacious

tender-hearted

thankful

thoughtful

thrifty

tidy

traditional

tranquil

trusting

trustworthy

truthful

Positive Adjectives Beginning with U

unassuming

unconventional

understanding

unpretentious

unselfish

upbeat

Positive Adjectives Beginning with V

vivacious

Positive Adjectives Beginning with W

warm

welcoming

whimsical

wholesome

wise

witty

Neutral or “Negative” Adjectives

Some of the adjectives listed above are neutral in their meaning. It’s not inherently good or bad to be methodical or extraverted. The included words are intended to help put language to a description of your child. This descriptive knowledge is useful for making decisions about learning environments, motivation, extracurricular activities, and many other things.

Additionally, a few of the adjectives listed above may sound negative to you. Perhaps you associate the word aggressive with a negative character trait. In actuality, a successful athlete or salesperson may rely on that very trait to be the best in their field.

Try to emphasize the uniqueness of each person and the ways different personality traits can be positive when used constructively.

These 250 positive adjectives to describe your child can be used to aid your child with increasing self-awareness. Encourage them to lean into their strengths, while recognizing areas in which they want to develop further.


Character Building Resources

For resources to spotlight and encourage positive character traits, check out my 10-part character building series. Designed to focus on one character trait each month of a 10-month school year, it includes quotes and questions for discussion, video links, news articles, and more. Find links to all 10 articles on my Character Counts page.

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Recommended Reading

For further reading about personality and learning styles, here are a few books I’ve found insightful.


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