One Year in the Time of Covid-19
The date this post is published, March 12, 2021, marks exactly one year since our lives were upended by the COVID-19 virus. On March 12, 2020, we received notice that our governor was closing schools for the remainder of the month. Obviously, we had no idea what was to come, but as I watched and read endless hours of news coverage in those first couple of weeks, I could see that life was going to change drastically, and not just for a few weeks. Now, a year out, I’m looking back at what our family did last year.
Coming up on the one-year anniversary of COVID life, I sat down to think about the ways our family played, learned, and connected with each other, and those outside our family, over the past year.
Why Make This List At All
Unless you journal regularly, you likely don’t remember much of the details of the past year. Between the stress of the past year, and my natural forward focus in my thinking, I don’t recall most of what happened last week, let along last year.
Making a list of positive ways our family enjoyed each other’s company, discovered something new, or encouraged someone around us helps me focus on gratitude. When I make a list this big (365 things is a lot to list), it also serves to slow down my thoughts from the warp speed that I operate in when scrolling social media or racing to check off the next thing on my to-do list.
One year of our lives is gone. I want to remember it. Thinking about how we spent it also helps me think about how I want to spend the next year.
So, here is a sampling of what our family did last year: 365 ways we played, learned, and connected meaningfully with each other and with others.
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How Our Family Played Last Year
We went on walks, played games, watched movies, read books together. I took a child with me on an errand and we stopped for smoothies one day. We had fun and made the best of the closures and restrictions that severely curtailed our spring, summer, and then fall and winter plans.
Nana came over early in the morning to hide Easter eggs in our backyard for the kids to have an Easter egg hunt. We watched the Perseid meteor shower snuggled in sleeping bags on the trampoline. We raced across a field, walked around a pond, and sledded down a hill.
The abrupt slowdown of our usual activities felt like time slowing down just a little bit. As my kids return to their normal extracurricular schedules, I treasure the time that we had in the past year to play together.
Getting Out of the House
- Went on bike rides
- Took lots of family walks
- Went to Great Wolf Lodge
- Watched fireworks on July 4th
- Took a trip to the beach
- Hiked at Mt. Tabor
- Swam at the lake
- Got smoothies at Jamba Juice
- Held a Family Olympics
- Drove to a neighboring state to buy an RV
- Social distanced drive-through hot-dog party
- Attended a hot chocolate party in a friend’s driveway
- Went sledding
- Rode a hoverboard
- Played ping-pong
- Drove a homemade go-cart
- Visited a new playground
- Did a scavenger hunt
- Had an Easter egg hunt in the backyard
- Jumped rope
- Played on monkey bars
- Raced across a field
- Picked blueberries and sold them
- Picked raspberries and ate them
- Had picnics in the woods
- Watched water being let out of a dam
- Built a snowman in February!
- Went out for ice cream
- Created backyard obstacle courses
- Practiced on a slackline
- Camped in the backyard
- Slept on the trampoline
- Played beach ball volleyball
- Roasted s’mores
- Played croquet
- Went kayaking
- Took a drive to see Christmas lights
- Played cornhole
- Played badminton
- Picked up donuts to celebrate halfway day through the school year
- Napped in a hammock
- Watched a big tree get taken down
- Played in sand
- Ran through sprinklers
- Made a waterslide on a play structure
- Picked flowers and made bouquets
- Mom and daughter haircuts together
- Rode on mini-bikes
- Practiced trampoline tricks
- Played in a treehouse
- Took walks in a beautiful hazelnut orchard
- Went to OMSI
Game Nights
We had family game nights, the kids played games together, they tried out Sudoku and learned to play poker.
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- Horse-opoly
- Chinese Checkers
- Checkers
- Labyrinth
- Dominoes
- 3-13 (card game using standard deck of cards)
- Phase 10
- Uno
- Scattergories
- Trionimoes
- Pictionary
- Scrambled States of America
- Crocinole
- Mad libs
- Sudoku
Family Fun
Time was stretched. We had plenty of time to spend with all five of us together, time for the kids to play with each other, and time for them to pursue things they personally enjoyed.
- Cooked dinners together
- Built a marble course
- Celebrated Ice Cream for Breakfast Day
- Practiced cup stacking
- Sunday movie & popcorn nights
- Practiced magic tricks
- Had paper airplane contests
- Made paper flowers
- Did YouTube yoga workouts together
- Made galaxy jars
- Played Bingo
- Did YouTube tabata workouts together
- Had an “orange” day
- Made pies
- Got a fish, kept it alive for 7 months, then buried a fish
- Made a spy decoder
- Picked pears
- Made melted crayon canvases
- Had a fancy tea party in the afternoon
- Picked grapes
- Had plank challenges
- Improved our splits (not me!)
- Had jumping jack challenges
- Made funny Alexa routines
- Made sock bunnies
- Had a pajama and reading day
- Made collages
- Picked apples
- Did YouTube Pilates workouts together
- Made applesauce
- Dressed up for a fancy Easter dinner (just us!)
- Made a paper chain countdown calendar for the school year
- Picked plums
- Baked cupcakes together
- Made perler bead coasters
- Baked cookies together
- Had living room dance parties
- Made loom band animals
- Had a LEGO build competition inspired by LEGO masters
- Did a 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle
- Made gingerbread houses
- Baked muffins together
- Kept a 30-day gratitude journal
- Made a hot cocoa bar for winter
- Made cards
- Had a Christmas movie marathon
What We Watched
No doubt about it, our screen time went up this past year. At the end of December, I instructed the kids to set a New Year’s goal. It could be anything from a one-month goal to a year-long goal. My youngest promptly told me her goal was to watch every episode of Phineas and Ferb! But it wasn’t all bad. Between Netflix, Prime, Kanopy, and YouTube, we found a lot to love. This list is mostly documentaries that we enjoyed, but we filled in with plenty of Disney+ classics and new releases!
Our family favorite was Lost in Space and the kids are eagerly awaiting the promised Season 3!
- Duma
- The Mighty Macs
- Jig
- A Ballerina’s Tale
- Wadjda
- Spellbound
- Dream Big
- On the Way to School
- Harness the Wind
- The Queen of Katwe
- National Parks Adventure
- LEGO House: Home of the Brick
- Pride & Prejudice
- Alone
- Lost in Space (both seasons!)
- Phineas and Ferb (all episodes)
- All the Star Wars movies
- Sister Act 2
- Wonderstruck
- Morning Light
- The Truman Show
- Madam Secretary
- The Greatest Showman
- Superman
- The Man Who Invented Christmas
- Little Women
- In Search of Greatness
- The Hobbit
- The Day After Tomorrow
- Capital
- Higher Education
- A Most Beautiful Thing
- Press Pause Play
- Everything is a Remix
- Tales of Creativity
- Helvetica
- Objectified
- Ken Burns’ Brooklyn Bridge
- Art & Copy
- Chef’s Table
- The Last Dance
- The Social Dilemma
- Becoming
- Land and Sea
How Our Family Learned Last Year
Having hours and hours and days and days of free time meant I had time to teach the kids life skills, encourage them to read for hours, or try a new hobby. By deciding to homeschool for this school year, we opened up additional free time the kids wouldn’t have had otherwise. My time was less free, but it’s been so worth it.
The list of things included here are not so much traditional “school learning,” but things we learned as part of participating in family life or exploring areas of interest.
Life Skills
Here are a few of the things one or more of the kids worked on over the past year.
- How to do laundry independently
- How to make pancakes
- Practiced setting the table
- How to make scrambled and fried eggs
- Cleaning up the kitchen after dinner
- How to make a quesadilla on the stovetop
- Sewed masks
- Learned to crochet hats
- How to peel vegetables
- Learned to read recipes
- Took responsibility for vacuuming bedrooms
- Using a kitchen knife to cut fruit or bagels
- Helped paint porch railing & bedroom walls
- Sewed scrunchies and headbands
- Crocheted scarves
- Sewed pillowcases
- Drove a tractor
- Planted a garden
- Had a first babysitting job
- Learned to clean toilets
- How to sew on buttons
- Cleaned out closets
Learning for Fun and Interest
We all learned a lot in the past year. Everyone had the opportunity to explore areas of interest and try something new. The kids learned a little about a lot of things, and a lot about themselves. I tried lots of small new things, a few big new things, and learned a whole lot too.
- Took a virtual watercolor painting class
- Learned to crochet a stuffed bunny
- Painted landscape scenery pictures
- Made pea soup and Irish soda bread
- Drew clothing designs
- Built a LEGO city
- Made Barbie clothes and furniture
- State capitals
- Learned about the periodic table
- Learned some Spanish
- Built a break-dancing mini-robot
- Learned to make perfect rice in the instant pot
- Learned to play Christmas carols on the piano
- Wrote a 150-page adventure story
- Made poppyseed muffins
- Learned about weather patterns
- Wrote song lyrics to the Beatles’ Come Together
- Learned about World War II
- Remodeled the back porch
- Saw Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn
- Watched a meteor shower
- Saw the stars through night-vision
- Tried a new recipe for chicken tikka masala
- Made storytime videos for a YouTube channel
- Watched a scientist dissect a cow eye
- Tried a new clam chowder recipe
- Learned creative lettering techniques
- Watched astronauts launch from the U.S. to visit the space station
- Made vegan cornbread for the first time
- Saw video from the Perseverance Rover landing on Mars
- Grew celery and green onion in the windowsill
- Learned to do back flips
- Wrote haiku
- Made vegan overnight oats
- Made and edited videos
- Learned to do complicated braided hairstyles
- Took an Arduino coding class
- Made sheet pan pancakes
- Learned the trick to easy-peel hard-boiled eggs (Instant Pot!)
- Watched dozens of Jeopardy episodes
- Caught frogs and salamanders and snakes
- Learned to do back handsprings
- Made flextangles
- Discovered she loves apple cider
- Learned to loom knit
- Made a volcano science experiment
- Took a virtual astronomy class
- Did lots of chemistry science experiments
- Practiced typing
- Tried a vegan lentil soup recipe
- Practiced shooting a bow and arrow
- Made a ballet barre
- Got a beehive started for honey
- Self-published a book on Amazon
- Wrote 70 blog posts
- Opened an Etsy shop
- Made t-shirts with Cricut machine
- Painted the house
- Made turkey chili from a new recipe
- Made coasters with Cricut machine
- Painted two bedrooms
- Made mugs with Cricut machine
- Learned to tie a new kind of knot
Podcasts We Listened To
We spent a lot less time in the car in the past year, which is our usual podcast listening time, but we found that we enjoyed listening to podcasts while making dinner sometimes. The kids also liked listening to a podcast while they colored or played with something else.
Here are some of the podcasts we listened to in the past 365 days.
- But Why?
- The Past and the Curious
- Wow in the World
- The Tim Ferriss Show
- How I Built This
- Tumble Science
- The Bible Binge
- Read Aloud Revival
- The Good Words Podcast
- Revisionist History
Books We Read
We did a lot of reading (some of us more than others). I read books to the kids, they read to themselves and each other. We listened to audio books, and I snuck in a page here and there whenever I could. Here are some of the books we got through in the past 365 days.
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- Heidi by Johanna Spyri
- Ramona Quimby, Age 8 by Beverly Cleary
- The Hundred Dresses by Eleanor Estes
- I Survived the Attack of the Grizzlies by Lauren Tarshis
- Magic Tree House: Knights at Dawn by Mary Pope Osborne
- The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien
- Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank
- The Story of the World Vol.2 by Susan Wise Bauer
- Number the Stars by Lois Lowry
- The Twenty-Four Days Before Christmas by Madeleine L’Engle
- A Boy Called Christmas by Matt Haig
- The Family Under the Bridge by Natalie Savage Carlson
- Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry by Mildred Taylor
- Call of the Wild by Jack London
- Rivers of Time series by Lisa Tawn Bergren
- Five Kingdoms series by Brandon Mull
- Mr. Lemoncello’s Library series by Chris Grabenstein
- The Penderwicks series by Jeanne Birdsall
- Mysterious Benedict Society series by Trenton Lee Stewart
- Miss Spitfire by Sarah Miller
- Bird by Crystal Chan
- The Book Scavenger by Jennifer Chambliss Bertman
- The Borrowers series by Mary Norton
- The One and Only Ivan by Katherine Applegate
- The Magician’s Nephew by C.S. Lewis
- The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster
- Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin
- Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by J.K. Rowling
- Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling
- Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban by J.K. Rowling
- Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
- Island of the Blue Dolphins by Scott O’Dell
- Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
- Bread & Wine by Shauna Niequist
- Yes, Please! by Amy Poehler
- Same Kind of Different as Me by Ron Hall and Denver Moore
- The Glass Castle by Janette Walls
- Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World by Kristen Welch
- The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
- Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson
- Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Henry
- The Lessons of History by Will and Ariel Durant
- Chasing Slow by Erin Loechner
- I Know How She Does It by Laura Vanderkam
- Who Built That by Michelle Malkin
- Free to Focus by Michael Hyatt
- The Me, Me, Me Epidemic by Amy McCready
- The Writing Life by Annie Dillard
- Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis
- Winter Garden by Kristin Hannah
- The Tattooist of Auschwitz by Heather Morris
- How Will You Measure Your Life by Clayton Christensen
- Imagine by Jonah Lehrer
- Risen Motherhood by Emily P. Jensen and Laura Wifler
- You Are the Girl for the Job by Jess Connolly
- The Antelope in the Living Room by Melanie Shankle
- Fear is Not the Boss of You by Jennifer Allwood
- When by Daniel Pink
- Space at the Table by Brad and Drew Harper
- Atomic Habits by James Clear
- Untamed by Glennon Doyle
- American Daughter by Stephanie Thornton Plymale
- Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist
- The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
- A Simplified Life by Emily Ley
- I’d Rather Be Reading by Anne Bogel
- I Lift Up My Soul by Charles Stanley
- Them by Ben Sasse
How Our Family Connected Last Year
Over the past year of staying home, with schools, churches, and classes shut down for a significant period of time, staying connected was challenging for a lot of us. Our family enjoyed the time together, but we also got irritable and grumpy with one another after weeks on end of the kids not getting to see anyone but their siblings.
Technology opened up new ways to connect with friends, and we learned to give each other needed space. People came up with creative ways to stay in touch, and we found little ways to encourage connection through letting friends and family know we were thinking of them.
Here’s a sampling of what our family did last year to stay connected.
- Baked cookies for neighbors
- Sent cards to older ladies in retirement homes
- Made meals for sick friends
- Picked up groceries for family members
- Prayed for countries around the world
- Attended a birthday slumber party over Zoom
- Participated in drive-by birthday celebrations
- Sent video messages for birthdays
- Connected with old friends via regular video chats
- Back yard visits with neighbors
- Shopping with friends (in masks)
- Church Bible study groups over Zoom
- Kids walked the dog around the neighborhood together
- Exchanged flowers, wreaths, pickled beets, berries, apples, soup, lasagna, and more with friends
- Danced in masks for a recording of the Nutcracker ballet
- Ballet class (on Zoom)
- Ballet class (in masks)
- Gymnastics conditioning with team (on Zoom)
- Gymnastics practice with team (in masks)
- Porch drop off Christmas gift exchange with friends
- Surprised by 100+ birthday balloons snuck into my house by my brother
- Drew chalk pictures outside school for teachers
- Got up early to run around the property together
- Going to church youth group (in masks)
- 12 year-old posted daily challenges on family text thread (my favorite: help mom with something today!)
- Hours long Facetime playdates with friends
- Messenger Kids texting with friends
- Attended a drive-through elementary school graduation ceremony
- Kids learned to sew, play canasta, and got extra reading help from Nana
- Back porch visits with grandparents
What Our Family Did Last Year
Everyone says 2020 was a dumpster-fire, a nightmare of epic proportions, and it was. But it was also a time for our family to hop off our hamster wheel and take a breath. We had less opportunities to travel and go to fun places, but more opportunities to make each other laugh, eat dinner together, and learn valuable life lessons.
We are slowly returning to our former pace of life. The kids are back in classes five nights a week, so dinners together are fewer these days. Already the intensity of feeling from a year ago is fading, like all my memories, and it feels more dreamlike than real.
I need the words on a page (or a screen) to bring me back to the day my kids played Monopoly all the way to the end, the night we stayed up late watching both Incredibles movies, or we looked through a scope to see more stars than any planetarium show could ever paint on a ceiling.
Here’s to playing, learning, and connecting for another year. And remembering.
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